别人要你做什么,你就做什么,最后就会变成苦力。别人需要你时你就出现,不需要你时你就消失,你会慢慢失去自我。做人最大的问题,就是不会拒绝。因为在这个世界上,会哭的孩子才有奶吃。你拒绝的越多,得到的才越多。做人就是:忍辱负重得吃苦,挑三拣四才享福。说不,才能得到,懂得拒绝,活得才不纠结。 What others want you to do, what you do, and finally become coolies. You appear when others need you, you disappear when you are not needed, and you lose yourself slowly. The biggest problem in life is that you will not refuse. Because in this world, the child will cry to eat milk. The more you refuse, the more you get. A man is: bite the bullet to bear hardship, pick and choose to enjoy the blessing. Say no, can get, know how to refuse, live only tangled.