每个人都有童年,但是,时过境迁,童年的心思在成人的心里已经变得模糊不清。日本作家有岛武郎曾说:“我们随着长大,逐渐远离了儿童的心灵。我们明显地不能像儿童一样来感受和思考。”儿童研究难就难在这里。读懂儿童绝非易事,需要我们静下心来,耐住寂寞,用心为之。这让我想起一则《拾鹅卵石》的寓言故事,说是一群牧民得到神的旨意,要求在路上多拾一些鹅卵石,很多牧民以为鹅卵石是旅途的累赘,不以为然,但当他 Everyone has childhood, however, the passage of time, childhood thoughts in the adult mind has become blurred. Japanese writer Takeo Kojiro once said: “As we grow older, we are far away from children’s minds, and we obviously can not feel and think like children.” “It is hard for children to study. Reading children is by no means easy, we need to stop, loneliness, intentions for it. It reminds me of a ”pebble" fable that a group of pastoralists get God’s purpose, asked to pick up some pebbles on the road, many peasants think pebbles is a burden on the journey, disagree, but when he