美国著名成人教育家代尔·卡尔基有一句名言:“一个人的成功有百分之十五是靠他的专业知识,而百分之八十五是靠他待人处世的艺术。”这句名言道出了处理人际关系的艺术对一个人的成功是何等重要。在社会主义国家,一个成功的领导者虽然不能肯定的说百分之八十五靠关系,但应该说,领导者建立和保持与上级, The famous American educator Dyer Kalki famously said: “One’s success is 15% on his expertise, and 85% on his art of treating others.” The famous words tell us how important the art of dealing with relationships is to one’s success. In socialist countries, although a successful leader can not say for sure 85% of the relationship, it should be said that leaders should establish and maintain relations with superiors,