早上,有位朋友发来截图,她把昨天的《请你弃用激将法》分享给父亲大人,后者显然很生气,表示:以后不要给我打电话,我不再管你的事了,免伤你自尊。我如果多提醒一句就好了:我的文章,分享给长辈时,请千万慎重。想清楚后果,不怕他们生气,或者有确定把握自己长辈愿意听听不同观点,当然鼓励你分享。人会爱上自己重复得多的行动和观点,即使它们是错的。人先是情绪动物,其次才是理智。 In the morning, a friend sent a screenshot. She shared yesterday’s “Please Abandon the Excitement Act” to his father and his wife, who was obviously very angry. He said: Do not call me in the future, and I will not control you anymore. Do not hurt your self-esteem. If I remind one more, my article, when sharing with elders, please be careful. Think of the consequences, not afraid of them angry or determined to grasp their elders are willing to listen to different points of view, of course, encourage you to share. People fall in love with much more repetitive actions and ideas, even if they are wrong. People first emotional animals, and secondly, is rational.