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人人都自卑。形成自卑的过程大约有两种:一是在小时候跟成人的比较过程中,都有不如成人的深刻体验,再加上某些不太利于成长的环境,自卑的状态就可能凝固在心里。二是每个人对自己的事情都比较了解,对别人的事情比较不了解,在自己的视野下,神秘的那边被不自觉地赋予一些同样神秘的力量或者光环。自卑源于所有生物都具有的攻击性。这种攻击性的呈现方式,就是在心理和行为层面,时时处处跟他人的比较。比较就是竞争,竞争就是在智力和体力上对他人实施攻击。
Everyone is inferior. There are about two types of process of self-depreciation: First, when compared with adults as a child, there is a profound experience that is inferior to adults. Coupled with some less conducive to the growth environment, the state of inferiority may be frozen in my heart. Second, everyone knows more about his own affairs and does not understand other people’s things. In his own perspective, the mysterious side is unconsciously given some of the same mysterious power or aura. Inferiority comes from all offensive creatures. This offensive presentation is the psychological and behavioral aspects, always comparing with others. Comparison is competition, competition is the intellectual and physical attacks on others.