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天真活泼的孩子们,有美丽、纯洁、敏感的心灵,儿童时期的心理烙印常常会影响到一个人的整个一生,因此,在育儿方法中,也有一个“扬长避短”的问题需要引起家长们的足够重视,具体说来要淡化以下四个方面的异常心理, 相貌心理对于那些相貌特别丑或特别美的孩子,家长有时会当着他们的面发表些议论。在被他们提示后,这些“相貌异常”的孩子对自己的相貌会产生“自己与众不同”的自卑或自傲心理。这种过早的自我浅层表面的关注,是不利于孩子心理全面健康发育的。因此,对于特美,特丑的孩子,家长都应努力去淡化他们的“与众不同感”。
The innocent and lively children have a beautiful, pure and sensitive mind. The psychological stigma of childhood often affects a person’s whole life. Therefore, there is also a problem of “avoiding weaknesses” in child-rearing methods that needs to be caused by parents Specifically, we should dilute the following four aspects of abnormal psychology, appearance psychology for those who look particularly ugly or particularly beautiful children, parents sometimes in front of them to make some comments. After being prompted by them, these “looks abnormal ” children on their appearance will have “different ” inferiority or pride. This premature self shallow surface of concern is not conducive to the child’s mental health comprehensive development. Therefore, for the United States, ugly children, parents should strive to dilute their “sense of difference.”