一个人就如一杆秤,随身携带的总有一定的重量,不能太多,也不能太少——否则,会失去平衡。于是,得到了一些,便注定会失去同样多——只是有时这种失去显而易见,有时这种失去会被人忽视罢了;或者有时得到的比失去的重要,有时失去的比得到的珍贵而已。于是便令人们产生了一种错觉,自以为得到了什么而雀跃,自以为失去了什么而悲哀。其实这是因为他们只看见了表象,正如只看见一件商品的价格一样,价格总是绕着价值上下波动,同样,得与失总是绕着平衡左右回旋,时隐时 A person is just like a steelyard. There is always a certain amount of weight that can be carried around. It cannot be too much or too little - otherwise, it will lose its balance. Then, if you get something, then you are destined to lose as much - but sometimes this loss is obvious, and sometimes this loss is ignored by others; or sometimes it is more important than loss, and sometimes lost than precious. Then people made a illusion that they thought they had something to gain and they thought that they had lost something and mourned. In fact, this is because they only see the appearance. Just as the price of a commodity is only seen, the price always fluctuates around the value. Likewise, the balance between gain and loss is always balanced.