强将手下无弱兵,似乎是约定俗成的事。真是这样吗?去年,应一家公司的邀请,我为一些中学生做了连续12天的心理团体辅导——情商素质集训活动,在这期的活动中,有一个叫简西的14岁男孩,给我留下了深刻的印象。在二十来个中学生中,简西无疑非常出众,身高一米六左右,长相帅气,皮肤白皙,戴一副眼镜,斯斯文文。在第一次的开场介绍中,不同于某些孩子的羞涩和谨慎,他落落大方、沉着稳重地说:“我叫简西,我来 Strong men will be weak, it seems to be conventional. Last year, at the invitation of a company, I did a series of 12-day psychological group counseling for a group of middle school students - EQ training. In this activity, there is a 14-year-old boy named Jane West I was impressed. In twenty or so high school students, Jane West is undoubtedly very outstanding, about six meters tall, handsome, fair-skinned, wearing glasses, and Siwen Wen. In the first introduction, unlike some of the children’s shyness and cautiousness, he said generously and calmly: ”My name is Jane West and I come