春秋时期孔子面对宗法制度松弛、个体小家庭普遍建立的情形 ,提出了家庭人际关系和家庭制度的相关礼仪 ,此后便作为规范沿用下来。宋代欧阳修和朱熹面对政治型的门阀士族解体、血缘型的家庭制度建立的情形 ,提出了自己的看法 ,但沿用的仍然是孔子的理论。直到上个世纪初学者才 During the Spring and Autumn Period, confronted with the relaxation of the patriarchal clan system and the general establishment of individual small families, Confucius proposed the related etiquette of the family interpersonal relationship and family system, and then used it as a code. In the Song Dynasty, Ouyang Xiu and Zhu Xi put forward their own views in the face of the disintegration of political gatekeepers and the formation of a kinship family system, but they still follow the Confucius theory. Until the beginning of the last century, only scholars