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如今社会文化多元化,价值观也多元化,年轻的爸妈为追求个人的幸福离婚,其子女要么由父母一方抚养,要么寄养在祖父或外祖父家,由于孩子得不到双亲的疼爱和教育,多是问题学生。下面谈谈单亲家庭孩子在校教育的粗浅做法。一忌“拿单亲说事”每每听到一些老师找到单亲问题学生语重心长地说:“你看你多不懂事,你爸(你妈)一个人养你又当爹,又当妈吃了多少苦啊,你懂点事吧!”老师您的做法伤害了孩子。单亲家庭的孩子因为家庭缺爹少娘,他们自卑自尊心变得特别强,一个有着完整家庭的人永远体会不到不完整家庭的人的心里有多痛。古语说的好:“打人不打脸,骂人不揭短”老师啊,您的良苦用心谁都明白,但您拿单亲说事伤了孩子的心了。我觉得我们要就事论事,因为拿单亲说事会伤孩子自尊心的。孩子会很反感,甚至因此不愿来上学了
Today, the diversity of society and culture, values and diverse, young parents in pursuit of personal divorce happiness, their children either by one of their parents or foster care in his grandfather or grandfather family, because the children do not get parental love and education, and more Is the problem student. Now let’s talk about the superficial approach of educating single-parent children in school. A bogey “take a single parent to say things ” often hear some teachers to find single parenting students said solemnly: “You see you more naive, your father (your mother) to raise you and when the father, and when Mom eat How much suffering ah, you know something! ”Your teacher hurt your child. Children of single-parent families have become particularly strong because of their lack of parents and self-esteem. It is painful for a person with a complete family to never realize the feelings of an incomplete family. The old saying goes: “hit people do not hit the face, curse does not expose the short” "Teacher, ah, your good intentions are understand, but you get a single parent said the child hurt the heart. I think we have to talk about the matter, because taking a single parent said the child will hurt the child’s self-esteem. Children will be very offensive, and even reluctant to go to school