很多事情的误导,在很多的时候源于这个所谓的背后议论。而忘记了最根本的一点:只是在听说。然而背后议论大有市场,有人说就有人听,有人听就有人信。既然是背后议论别人,这本身就是问题。是大问题!现实就是这样:轻信背后看似没有代价,其实代价最大,它可以动不动删掉本是朋友的人,它可以毁掉曾有过自己辛勤下的友谊。现实就是这样:几乎对于所有背后议论的人,没人反感多数是愿意听,把听来的越多越当成快事。 Many misleading things, in many cases from the so-called behind the discussion. And forget the most fundamental point: just heard. However, there is a lot of discussion behind the market. Some people say someone listens, someone listens to someone. Since it is behind the discussion of others, this in itself is the problem. It is a big problem! The reality is this: There seems to be no price behind the credulity, in fact, the greatest cost, it can be deleted at any time this is a friend, it can ruin the friendship has been under their own hard work. The reality is this: Almost for all the people behind the discussion, no one is objectionable most willing to listen to, the more the more heard as an event.