福建闽南地区流传一句俗语:人生三大事,娶妻、生子、起大厝。起大厝就是盖大房子。盖一栋自己的大房子,是人生浓墨重彩的三笔之一。意思是说,人活一世,不在自己手中盖起几间大厝,不仅妄对自己的人生,也愧对他人的眼光,是一件说不过去的事儿。可见房事非小事。起大厝,好听一点说起的是人的需求、人的价值、人的梦想,朴素一点说起的是人的脸面、人的身份、人的虚荣心。房子承载的或者说附加在房子上的这些个 Fujian Minnan area circulating a common saying: three major events in life, a wife, a son, a large house. From the big house is to build a big house. Build a big house of their own, is one of the three strokes in life. The meaning is that people live one life, not in their own hands to build a few big house, not only jump on their own lives, but also unpleasant to others, is a matter to be justified. Can be seen non-trivial things. From the big house, nice to talk about the needs of people, the value of mankind, people’s dreams, simpler talk about the human face, human identity, human vanity. These are the ones carried by the house or attached to the house