大家都知道,骆驼是吃草的,肉的味道尽管鲜美至极,它也不会吃。因此,喂骆驼只能喂草,不能喂肉。父母教育子女,给孩子施爱、施教,也是同样的道理。家长对子女进行教育和培养,要因人而异,因材施教。要做到这一点。就要注意发现、保护并激发、培养孩子的兴趣和爱好。对孩子来说,兴趣是他们学习的根本动力,这是由他们的年龄小、实践少、认知能力和理解问题能力有限等条件而决定的。孩子有了兴趣,学习才会全身心地投入,才能显效并最后取得成功。孩子没有兴趣的东西,家长逼迫他们去学,即使无可奈何地去学,结果也不会有多大收获。西晋著名文学家左思的实践从正反两个方面说明了这个问题。左思幼时,父亲一 Everyone knows that camels are grazing, and the taste of meat, although delicious, will not eat. Therefore, feeding camel can only feed grass, can not feed the meat. The same is true for parents who educate their children, give their children love, and teach. Parents of children education and training, should vary from person to person, teaching students according to their aptitude. need to be able to do this. We must pay attention to discover, protect and stimulate, cultivate children’s interests and hobbies. For children, interest is the fundamental motivation for their learning, which is determined by their young age, lack of practice, cognitive abilities and limited ability to understand problems. Children are interested, learning will devote himself, in order to be effective and ultimately successful. Children are not interested in things, parents forced them to go to school, even if helpless to go to school, the result will not be much gain. The practice of Zuo Si, a famous writer in the Western Jin Dynasty, illustrates the issue from both positive and negative aspects. Zuo Si young, his father one