让孩子自己动手吃饭儿子出生时,因为双方老人身体都不好,我们便请了大姐来帮忙看孩子。儿子一岁半左右的一天晚上吃饭时,我赫然发现他居然在用筷子吃饭,不过餐桌上洒落了不少饭菜。老公生性节俭,看到儿子洒的饭菜,便大声呵斥他。儿子在老公的呵斥声中更加慌乱,饭菜掉得更多。老公大喊了一声:“不许用筷子!”儿子扔下筷子哇哇大哭起来。大姐哄好儿子后慢慢地说:“在美国,两岁左右的孩子都自己吃饭了。父母从不 Let the children eat their own son at birth, because the elderly are not good on both sides, we invited the eldest sister to help see the child. Son one and a half years old one evening meal, I was shocked to find that he actually eat with chopsticks, but the table spilled a lot of food. Her husband was frugal, saw his son sprinkle food, then scold him loudly. Son scolding her husband more panic, meals fell more. Her husband shouted: ”not allowed to use chopsticks! “ Son throwing chopsticks wah-wah cried. Sister coax son after slowly said: ”In the United States, about two years old children eat their own parents never