“你是怎么管教孩子的?你家孩子又打我家小孩了!”“你这样宠孩子是不对的,你家孩子应该被揍一顿!”“你家小孩太内向了!”……除了面对孩子,妈妈们还要面对来自四面八方的指手画脚。很多妈妈在家里对孩子还有耐心,但被人这么一说,就觉得孩子的表现令自己很没面子。其实,无论是妈妈还是其他教育者,都应该打破以我为主的想法,而应以孩子为主,去尊重孩子的想法和选择。这不但是给自己松绑,也有利于培养一个乐观开朗的孩子。 “How do you teach children? Your child hit my child again! ” “You are such a pet child is not right, your child should be beaten meal! ” “Your family is too introverted! ”... In addition to face the children, mothers have to face from the fingers and feet from all directions. Many mothers are patient with their children at home, but when they are said to do so, they feel that their child’s performance has made him faceless. In fact, both mothers and other educators should break the idea that is based on me. Instead, they should regard children as the mainstay and respect the children’s thoughts and choices. This is not only to relax themselves, but also conducive to the development of an optimistic and cheerful children.