年轻时在家乡常听长辈们谈什么“人生境界”的问题,只见我父亲摇头三叹,说世事皆空。那时我压根儿不明白他们讲的是什么。稍长入学,日夜为功课而忙,也没有闲情去分辨、去领略。接着下来结婚、就业,涉世愈深,愈觉得人生须要实际,而且苦多于乐。早几年我不知忽从哪儿学到了一句口头禅,即“情调”二字。每 When I was young, I used to listen to the elders talk about the “realm of life”. I saw my father shake his head and sigh and said that everything was empty. At the time, I didn’t understand what they were talking about. After entering school for a long time, he worked hard for homework day and night, and he did not have the time to tell and appreciate. Then the more you get married and get employed. The deeper you become involved, the more you feel that life needs to be practical and that you are more bitter than happy. In the early years, I didn’t know where I had learned a mantra, that is, the word “intimacy.” each