孩子的教养、友善、责任感、主动性、抗挫能力,一定都有父母的功劳。前一段时间有个妈妈找我咨询。她儿子从小就是学霸,一路重点学校,一直年级前三,最后保送进了名牌大学。可是大学毕业一年,他失业三次。前两次是没过试用期,第三次是自己估计通不过,主动打包走人了。然后他就拒绝再找工作,现在已经在家闷了快半年,整天打游戏到深夜,无节 Children’s education, friendliness, sense of responsibility, initiative, resistance to frustration, there must be parents credit. Some time ago a mother to find me advice. Her son was learned Pa was an important school all the way, has been the first three grades, and finally insured into the prestigious universities. But one year after graduating from university, he was unemployed three times. The first two times have not passed the probationary period, the third is their own estimates pass, take the initiative to package leave. Then he refused to find a job, now bored almost half a year at home, playing games all day long until no night