其实,规范约束不仅对成人有利,使孩子按照我们的意愿成长,对孩子来说也并不是件坏事。相反孩子藉此获得一种安全感,也获得知识和经验。独生子女都比较骄横任性,三岁的女儿慧婷也是如此。有一阵沉湎于电视之中,看得忘了动嘴,一顿饭要吃上一个多小时。于是我们立下规矩:吃饭时间不准看电视。起先,她又哭又闹,可没过几天,她已养成了吃饭 In fact, normative restraint is not only beneficial to adults, so that children grow according to our wishes, it is not a bad thing for children. Instead, children get a sense of security, but also gain knowledge and experience. Only children are more arrogant and self-willed, the three-year-old daughter Ting Ting is also true. For a while indulging in television, forget to move, a meal to eat more than an hour. So we set the rules: eating time is not allowed to watch TV. At first, she cried and laughed, but after a few days, she had formed a meal