尊重孩子的天赋,守望生命的成长,并不意味着听任孩子自然生长,父母只能袖手旁观。守望生命成长要求父母从孩子出生之后,细心观察孩子出现的重要变化,及时给予扶持或矫正,只要方法得当,即便在“油盐不进”的状态下,教育也可以取得效果。早在我们决定要孩子时,太太就提出两点要求:一是不能长老大了还动不动要抱;二是孩子不肯吃饭,不能满街追着喂。我又加了一条,绝对不让孩子用哭闹要挟我们。孩子三岁时,有一次我去无锡讲课,结束后,太太 Respecting a child’s talent and watching for the growth of life does not mean that he or she should only stand by with his children’s natural growth. Watch the growth of life requires parents to be born from the child, carefully observe the child’s important changes occur in a timely manner to give support or correction, as long as the method is properly, even in the “oil into the” state, education can also be effective. As early as when we decided to have children, my wife made two demands: First, you can not grow up with the eldest brother; Second, the children refuse to eat and can not chase after the hedge. I added one, never allow children to threaten us with crying. When my child was three years old, I once went to Wuxi for lectures. After that, my wife