婚姻就如一部车,在运行了一年后,表面上或许并没有太多的变化,车主可能还因此沾沾自喜:我们又相安无事了一年。而某些零部件的磨损与消耗,却是在不知不觉中完成的,它的危害性在短时间里甚至表现不出来,直到有一天,达到了它所能承受的极限,它带来的可能是一场灾难。所以,在每年年末,我们都有必要对婚姻进行一次例行的年检(其实,也许月检更有益),在客观、冷静、缜密的检测之下,许多 Marriage is like a car, running for a year, the surface may not have changed too much, the owner may also be complacent: we have peace of mind for a year. The wear and tear of certain parts is unknowingly completed, and its harmfulness can not even be manifested in a short time until one day reaches the limit it can afford. It may be a disaster. Therefore, at the end of each year, it is necessary for us to carry out a routine annual examination of marriage (in fact, it may be more beneficial for a monthly inspection). Under objective, calm and careful examination, many