人这一辈子,很多事情无从选择。比如来和去,都由不得你自己,来时爹娘未曾和你商量,去时上帝也不用征得你的同意。一位大家说,人生有四然:来是偶然,去是必然,尽其当然,顺其自然。既然人生除了生死没有大事,那么掐头去尾,自己做主的时间也就是中间那几十年和那些个小事了。 Many people have no choice in their lives. Such as coming and going, by no means you yourself, when the father and mother did not discuss with you, when God does not need your consent. One of us said that there are four things in life: coming by chance, going by necessity, taking it for granted, and letting go. Since life is no major event in addition to life and death, then split his head and tail, their own time is the middle of those decades and those little things.