很多父母往往喜欢拿自己子女的短处和别人家孩子的长处作对比,而且,常常得出“自己的孩子不如别人的孩子”的悖论,殊不知,这种认识是极不正确的。 Many parents often prefer to compare the weaknesses of their children with the strengths of children in other households. Moreover, it often leads to the paradox that “one’s own children is not as good as others’ children”. This is an extremely incorrect understanding.