政工干部只有具有准确而高超的分析判断能力,才能洞悉广大官兵心灵的秘密,及时地把握其思想的脉搏。现实生活中,官兵的言语、行为、神情、嗜好等行为方式往往直接或间接反映着本人的真实心理状态,我们应善于对其加以观察、辨别、分析,作出正确的判断,从而把经常性的思想工作做在前面,提高其有效性。 一、言语判断——“闻其言而知其人” 首先我们应善于根据官兵的言语内容来判断其心理状态。一个人的言语往往直接反映着他的个性特征和心理状态,最常见的现象是,自己需要什么就说什么,自己想什么就讲出来,这是一种对自己心理的直接流露,而有些言语内容却包含着另外的意义或代表着谈话人的个性特征,这需要经过分析才能把握。比如常常以自己为中心话题的人往往具有较强的自我意识,一般有很强的表现欲;相反,常以别人为谈话内容的人则表现出对他人的重视或想支配他人。在现实中,还有些官兵的谈话具有很大的隐藏性,例如有些官兵为琢磨领导对自己或他人以及某事的看 Only with accurate and superb analytical and judgment capabilities, political and military cadres can gain an insight into the secrets of the souls of officers and men and grasp the pulse of their thinking in time. In real life, the behaviors of the officers and men, such as speech, behavior, expression and hobby, often directly or indirectly reflect their true state of mind. We should be good at observing, discerning, analyzing and making correct judgments so that the regularity Ideological work done in front to improve its effectiveness. First, the speech judgment - “smell its words and know others” First of all, we should be good at judging the psychological state of the officers and soldiers based on the language. A person’s speech often directly reflects his personality and psychological state, the most common phenomenon is that what they need to say what they want to say out, this is a direct disclosure of their mentality, and some words Content contains other meanings or represents the speaker’s personality traits, which need to be analyzed to grasp. For example, those who often focus on their own topics tend to have strong self-awareness and generally have a strong desire to express themselves. On the contrary, those who often talk to others show their emphasis on others or want to dominate others. In reality, there are still some hidden secrets of the conversations between officers and men. For example, some officers and soldiers think that leaders should look at themselves or others and something