离婚无论对当事人,还是对其家庭成员,尤其是对子女都会造所一定的不良影响,甚至还会增加社会的负担。据某部对12个连队的调查。婚变家庭入伍士兵竟多达73名,其占有率显而易见。这些士兵普遍存在着严重的思想负担和心理障碍,是部队基层思想工作的重点对象。 一 夫妻关系是否正常影响着家庭生活的各个方面,对子女的健康成长几乎有着决定性的影响,即使子女成人入伍后,在心灵上仍然留有严重的创伤。主要表现为下列情况: 自卑那些未成年时父母就离异的士兵,往往是在互相谩骂、摔东西、甚至打架的环境中长大的,所受刺激很大,从小就失去了天伦之乐和安全感,成人后对他人往往存有戒备心理, Divorce will certainly have a detrimental effect on the parties and their family members, especially their children, and will even increase the burden on the community. According to a survey of 12 companies. As many as 73 soldiers join the ranks of marriage change, its share is obvious. These soldiers are experiencing serious ideological burdens and psychological barriers and are the key targets of the grassroots ideological work of the armed forces. The normal relationship between husband and wife affects all aspects of family life and has almost a decisive effect on their children’s healthy growth. Even if their children are enlisted, their children still have serious psychological trauma. Mainly in the following situations: Inferiority Soldiers who divorce their parents when they are young tend to grow up in an environment of abusive abuse, wrestling and even fighting. They are greatly stimulated and have lost their grandchildren ’lives and safety since they were young Sense, adults tend to be alert to others,