捷克作家米兰·昆德拉所著的《不能承受的生命之轻》是一部关注现代社会人类生存境遇和两性关系的哲理小说,小说通过对两对男女爱情心理的深刻描写,揭示了现代社会中爱情意义的失落及其回归之道。一、男性中心主义的爱情一托马斯与特蕾莎托马斯是情圣特里斯丹和好色之徒唐璜的混合体。他对女人既渴望又恐惧,所以他主张没有感情投入的“性友谊”的原则,并在和特蕾莎相爱、结 The “unbearable lightness of life” by the Czech writer Milan Kundera is a philosophical novel focusing on the human existence and the relationship between men and women in modern society. The novel reveals the modern society through the profound depiction of the love psychology of the two men and women The Lose of Meaning of Love and the Way to Its Return. First, the male-centrist love Thomas and Teresa Thomas is a mixture of Saint Tristan and erotic Don Juan. He longs for and fears the woman, so he advocates the principle of “sexual friendship” without affection and is in love with Theresa