现在的学生大多是独生子女,在家以自我为中心,养成“唯我独尊”的习惯。到了初中阶段,由于学习上的超负荷,以及生活中其他烦恼,他们的自尊心不再得到满足,于是产生逆反心理,甚至导致了心理扭曲,对家长、老师不再言听计从,这无疑给班主任在教育过程中压了一副重担。因此,教师对学生的教育,尽管付出了很多,却得不到学生的理解和欢迎。然而,善于谈话、疏导的班主任,面对这种状况就会驾轻就熟,得心应手。 Most of the students now are only children, at home to self-centered, develop “the only one I respect” habit. At the junior middle school stage, their self-esteem is no longer satisfied due to the overload of learning and other troubles in life. As a result, they are psychologically rebellious and even distorted their minds. They no longer listen to their parents and teachers. This undoubtedly gives the teacher in charge of education The process pressured a burden. Therefore, teachers’ education of students, though they have paid a lot, can not be understood and welcomed by students. However, good at talking, counseling class teacher, in the face of this situation will be familiar and handy.