一个还不满10岁的孩子开始喜欢钱,并且用一些幼稚的办法来拥有钱。对父母来说,这既是一件让人担心的事,也是一件让人可以高兴的事。为什么这样说? 一个孩子能否比别的孩子成长得更快和更好,一个很重要的因素就是要看他对外部世界是否产生欲望。欲望是一个人成长的原动力。父母可以和孩子讨论通过怎样的万式去拥有他喜欢的东西,钱只是实现欲望的工具,一种桥梁,不要就钱本身的问题纠缠不清。12岁以下的孩子,一般没有管理金钱的能力,每周一两块零花钱就可以了。如果他需要什么东西,父母应该给他机会让他说出自己的愿望,并共同来讨论哪些是可以马上实现的,哪些愿望需要等一 A child under 10 years old starts to like money, and has some naive ways to own money. To parents, this is both a matter of concern and a matter of pleasure. Why say so? A child can grow faster and better than other children, a very important factor is to see if he has the desire for the outside world. Desire is the driving force behind a person’s growth. Parents can discuss with their children what kind of ways to have what they like, money is only a tool for the realization of desire, a bridge, not to tangle with the money itself. Children under the age of 12 generally do not have the ability to manage money. One or two pocket money per week is enough. If he needs something, parents should give him the opportunity to let him speak his or her own wishes and work together to discuss what can be achieved immediately, which wishes need to wait