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很多人都问,怎么样才能算爱呢?其实我一再说过,相爱是没有标准的,因为这是恋爱的事情。此刻浓的,以后会淡;现在激烈的,以后会平静;这会儿给你花钱,以后可能就会节俭。相爱有时是一个吻,有时是一个拥抱,有时却是一个眼神。虽然并没有一个必然爱或者必然不爱的标准,但在我们的感情经历中,确实有一些感情的表达方式比较高级,而另一些却显得草率。什么是草率的爱情呢?譬如承诺时答应的很好,到头来却不算数的;譬如说满嘴甜言蜜语,实际行动一点都没有的;譬如说总是说爱你,到头来却总要你付出的;譬如说年少时让你跟着吃苦,以后却不让你跟着享福的。
Many people ask how to count love? In fact, I have said repeatedly, there is no standard of love, because it is a matter of love. Concentrated at the moment, the future will be light; now intense, will be calm later; now give you money, the future may be thrifty. Love sometimes is a kiss, sometimes a hug, sometimes it is a look. Although there is not a standard that must or never does not love, in our emotional experience, there are indeed some expressions of emotion that are more advanced while others appear sloppy. What is sloppy love? Promise promised good, for example, does not count in the end; for example, mouthful of sweet talk, the actual action is not at all; for example, always say love you, but always you have to pay; for example When young, let you follow hardship, but later you will not let you enjoy the blessing.