大凡每一个做父母的都是无私地对孩子奉献,从没想到过要向孩子索取一些什么,并且认为这是父母应尽的义务,是不容置疑的。但我在教养孩子的过程中却发现:父母如果一味奉献,不讲索取,将会给孩子的成长带来非常不利的影响。从孩子呱呱坠地开始,父母亲几乎把自己的一切都奉献给了孩子。孩子总是在向父母亲提要求,并且大部分要求都可以得到满足。随着时间的流逝,这种定势也就形成了,即:父母成了满 Almost every parent is unselfish devotion to their children, never thought about what to ask for their children, and that this is the obligation of parents, is beyond doubt. However, in the process of raising children, I found that if my parents sacrificed their lives without asking for help, they would have a very negative impact on their children’s growth. Since the birth of the baby, parents almost devoted everything to their children. Children are always asking their parents, and most of the requirements are met. With the passage of time, this set also formed, that is: parents become full