“自己的事情自己做”是多年来教师在培养孩子自理能力时常说的一句话。这句话在教育孩子独立做事方面起到了一定的积极作用。但是,这句话若用之不当,在孩子身上有时也会产生一定的负面效应。比如,某教师让一男孩搬把椅子,谁知那孩子把头一扬,用老师的 “Do Your Own Things by Yourself” is a word that teachers often say in cultivating children’s self-care ability over the years. This sentence has played a certain positive role in educating children to work independently. However, if this sentence is used inappropriately, children sometimes have some negative effects. For example, a teacher let a boy move the chair, who knows the child a head Yang, with the teacher’s