如今，导致我们生活无聊、烦闷的因素之一，就是外部的压力过重。社会已经到了知识竞争的时代，现代的父母谁不期待自己的孩子将来能成就一番事业，而这种望子成龙、望女成凤的心理往往会给我们造成压力。许多父母就在我们的耳边念叨：“孩子，你要努力呀，一定要考上重点大学 Today, one of the factors that make our lives boring and bored is the external pressure. Society has come to an era of knowledge competition. Modern parents who do not expect their children to accomplish something in the future will often put pressure on us because of such successes and aspirations. Many parents say in our ears: "Children, you have to work hard, must be admitted to key universities