认识他是在那个动荡的岁月。那年我二十三岁,在那个年代早就该谈婚论嫁了,可我却无动于衷。不是没有人追求,而是我觉得追我的人不符合我的要求。具体是什么要求我自己也说不清楚,但有一点是非常明确的,不找农村人。我不是看不起农村人,而是我出生于县城,习惯了小县城的人多,热闹,对农村的偏远和寂静以及生活方式,总有点望而生畏,始终不敢走近。那年月不像现在这样混乱,虽说不上什么夜不闭 Know him in that turbulent years. That year, I was twenty-three years old, and I was married at that age, but I was indifferent. Not nobody pursues, but I do not think my followers meet my requirements. What specifically asked me to say it myself, but one thing is very clear, do not look for rural people. I am not despising the rural people. Instead, I was born in the county seat. I was accustomed to the small county town with more people, liveliness, remoteness, silence and way of life of the rural areas. I was always daunting and always afraid to approach. That year is not as chaotic as it is now, although it is not a problem for the night