我正在贺卡店挑选生日贺卡——走过来一位小伙子和我说起了话。“今年你送给父亲什么礼物?”他问我。“我父亲在1998年就去世了。”我说。他显然很尴尬,说:“哦,对不起。我只是随便问问。”然后继续他的话,“因为我总是很发愁,不知道给我父亲买些什么好。不是他应有尽有,而是无论给他买什么,到头来都是放进抽屉,一次他都不用。” I’m picking a birthday card at a greeting card shop - I came over and a guy spoke to me. “What gift did you give to your father this year?” He asked me. “My dad died in 1998. ” I said. He was apparently embarrassed and said: “Oh, I’m sorry, I just ask casually.” And then continue with his words, “Because I’m always worried and I do not know what to buy for my dad. No matter what he bought, all the way into the drawer, he did not have one. ”