俗语说得好,“家家有本难念的经”,对老年人来说,为人父母,念的主要是与子女相处这本“经”。 现在的老年人大都有很多子女,多达八九个,甚至更多,少的也要两三个。家庭是个小社会,人越多关系越复杂,而父母在家庭中的地位和影响是很重要很关键的。“清官难断家务事”,要想处理好家庭中方方面面的关系实非 As the old saying goes, “Every family has this book”, for the elderly, parents, read mainly with their children this “by.” Most of the elderly now have many children, as many as 89, or even more, and less often two or three. The family is a small community, the more complex the relationship is and the more important is the status and influence of the parents in the family. “Unofficial Chuanchuan chores”, in order to deal with all aspects of family relations is not