我一直是个宣称要让孩子自由成长的母亲,经常为自己的“甩手”寻找各种各样的理由,跟同事、朋友聊起来,也是振振有辞地宣扬自己那一套做法。当然就有人要提出质疑:“你真的撒手不管,‘放养’吗?”仔细想想,似乎还没到放任自流的程度,很多事情还是要管的, I have always been a mother who claims to free her child to grow up. I often look for various reasons for my “hand-off” and chat with my colleagues and friends. I also use my courage to promote myself. Of course, some people have to question: “You really give up, ’stocking it?’” Think about it, it seems that the degree of laissez-faire, many things still to be managed,