我们无法回避隔代育儿的种种弊端,也无法将三代人之间错综复杂的关系一朝梳理清楚。但是,只要全家人共同努力,隔代育儿也可以非常美好,它所衍生出一切问题都可以轻松解决。而且,其实有很多问题,本来就不是问题。不知从何时起,隔代育儿似乎成了一个颇具负面性的词。它蕴含着两辈人在养育孩子上的观念之争,意味着由生活方式引发的种种冲突,甚至有时候,还能关系僵到让小家庭分崩离析……但是,无论这样的养育模式有多少不足,它依然是目前中国最普遍的养育组合 We can not shy away from the disadvantages of child-bearing every generation, nor can we sort out the intricate relationships between the three generations once and for all. However, as long as the whole family works together, it can be very beautiful from generation to generation, and all the problems it causes can be easily solved. Moreover, in fact, there are many problems that are not problems at all. I do not know since then, every childbirth seems to have become a rather negative word. It contains the contention of the mindset of two generations in child rearing, which means that the conflicts caused by the way of life, and sometimes even the relationship between rigid and small family collapse ... However, no matter how many such deficiencies in parenting mode , It is still the most common parenting group in China at present