自我服务技能是幼儿社会化过程中所必须掌握的内容之一。幼儿的自我服务技能包括系带、打结、穿衣服、扣钮扣、洗脸、刷牙、梳头、吃饭、上厕所等等。以上技能有些属于小肌肉群的协调运动,有些属于大肌肉群的协调运动,有些是视觉与运动觉的协调活动。幼儿掌握这些技能,不仅可以增强自己的独立性和成功感,还可以减少家长的照顾时间,使家庭整体受益。但是,不少家长却往往不能正确对待孩子自我服务技能的培养。一种情况是,家长自觉或不自觉地剥夺了幼儿自我服务的机会。有的家长工作忙、时间紧,顾不上给孩子提供练习自我服务的机会,孩子能完成的事家长宁 Self-service skills is one of the most important parts of children’s socialization. Toddlers’ self-service skills include lacing, knotting, dressing, buttoning, washing their face, brushing their teeth, combing their hair, eating, using the toilet, and more. Some of the above skills are part of the coordinated movement of small muscle groups, some of which belong to the coordinated movement of large muscle groups, and some are visual and sports coordination activities. Toddlers’ ability to master these skills not only enhances their independence and sense of success, but also reduces parental care and benefits for the family as a whole. However, many parents often can not correctly handle children’s self-service skills training. In one case, parents consciously or unconsciously deprived their child of self-service. Some parents busy with work, time tight, attend to give children the opportunity to practice self-service, the child can do things, Changning