任性,是当今中国“小皇帝”们的通病,究其原因,都是由父母们迁就、放纵所致。现在,由于独生子女的特殊地位,孩子被家长视为掌上明珠,娇惯放纵。大家对下面这样的场景恐怕并不陌生:一对父母带着孩子逛商店,在琳琅满目的玩具柜前,孩子吵着要买,父母不答应,孩子就大发脾气,又哭又闹,甚至赖在地上不走。无奈,做父母的只好顺从。孩子拿着刚买的玩具,破涕为笑。对孩子提出的不合理的要求,家长事事顺从,处处迁就,无原则的放任、姑息。孩子纯洁的心灵会产生一种信息反馈,形成一种错误的观念,认为天下无己不能之事,只要一哭闹,父母就会心软、屈服,就可以达到自己的目的。这样,他们便常常提出非分的要求。久而久之,他们就会产生一种优越 Self-willedness is a common problem for today’s “little emperors” in China. The reason for this is all due to the indulgence and indulgence of parents. Now, due to the special status of the only child, children are regarded as pearl by parents, used to indulge. I am afraid that the scene is not unfamiliar to such a scene: a pair of parents with children to shop, in front of an array of toy cabinets, the children clamoring to buy, parents do not agree, the children big temper, crying and joking, and even Lai The ground does not go. Helpless, parents have to obey. Children just bought the toy, ruffled tears. Unreasonable demands on children, parents, obedience, accommodation everywhere, no principle of laissez-faire, appeasement. Children’s pure heart will produce an information feedback, the formation of a wrong idea that the world can not do anything, as long as a cry, parents will be soft-hearted, yield, you can achieve their goals. In this way, they often make improper demands. Over time, they will produce a superior