前几天无意中看到了一本家庭教育杂志,里面有一篇文章是关于生活当中孩子们的规矩和自由如何平衡的写照,我看了很有感触,因为现在的我不但是每天与孩子们打闹在一起的老师,也是一位孩子的妈妈,所以我能深刻地体会到文中所说的道理。在我从教的这六年半中,大小不同年龄段的孩子我都接触过,有时候从家长的手中接过孩子时,总是会听到家长对孩子们的嘱咐,例如你不可以上课跑来跑去,不可以上课的时候东张西望,不可以吃饭的时候挑食,不可以跟小朋友吵架等等。一大堆的不可以,一大推的规矩,也形成了孩子的麻痹,孩子们每天面对着的重复的话,早已失去了它们原本的意义。不过当时因为我只是站在教师的立场 A few days ago, I noticed a family education magazine with an essay on how to balance the rules and freedom of children in life. I was very touched because now I not only play daily with children The teacher together, but also a child’s mother, so I can deeply understand the text said. During the six and a half years that I taught, I have been exposed to children of all ages and sizes. Sometimes when I pick up a child from a parent, I always hear the parents ask the children, for example, you can not run in class Come and go, can not class look around, can not eat when eating picky, can not quarrel with children and so on. A lot of impossibility, a big push, but also the formation of a child’s paralysis, the children face the repeated words, they have long lost their original meaning. But because I was just standing on the teacher’s position