中华民族自古就是礼仪之邦。时至今日,社会的发展更带动了文明的进步,国人对礼仪和礼貌的重视程度逐步加深,但是也有人认为礼貌是虚套可有可无。事实上,不讲礼貌不仅会给人留下不好的印象,有时甚至会成为事业发展的阻力。本文从谭一平的《注意礼貌富有教养》(《秘书》2010年第11期)一文入手,试对“礼貌”进行 The Chinese nation has always been a state of ceremonies. Today, the development of society has brought even more progress in civilization. People have gradually deepened their attention to etiquette and courtesy, but some people think that politeness is dispensable. In fact, not being polite can not only make a bad impression, but sometimes even become a drag on career development. This article starts with Tan Yiping’s “Paying Attention to Manners of Politeness” (Secretary No. 11 of 2010), trying out “Politeness”