子曰“:躬自厚而薄责于人,则远怨矣!”孔子说“:严格要求自己而少责备别人,就能远离怨恨了。”严于律己,宽以待人,历来是中华民族的优良传统。如果每个人都能这样做,我们所在的集体就会是一个和谐的集体,我们所在的社会就会成为一个和谐的社会。怨恨是人际关系的腐蚀剂,而友爱 “Zi Yu”: “If you are thick and thin, you’re complaining about it, then you’re complaining!” Confucius said: “Strictly demanding oneself but less reproaching others will keep you away from resentment.” Being strict with others and being generous with others, it has always been the Chinese nation. The fine tradition. If everyone can do this, our collective will be a harmonious collective, and our society will become a harmonious society. Resentment is a corrosive agent of relationships, and friendliness