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3岁危险期也称第一反抗期,孩子主要表现为不听话、执拗、任性,家长让他东,他偏西;自我主张,按自己的意愿行事倾向极强,违抗父母的指令,争取自由活动,摆脱束缚等等。 儿童的这些表现是自我意识萌芽及发展的结果,是独立倾向的最初表现。然而家长大多不了解这个时期儿童的心理特点,一味地与孩子对着干,非得把孩子制服不可,结果却适得其反,孩子不服,家长生气。殊不知,孩子这种无意识反抗正是日后独立活动、独立思考、独立判断、做事敢于承担责任、
3-year-old risk period also known as the first resistance period, the children mainly for disobedience, stubborn, self-willed, parents let him east, he westward; self-assertion, according to their own will to act extremely strong, defying the directives of their parents to fight for freedom Activities, get out of the shackles and so on. These manifestations of children are the result of the sprouting and development of self-awareness and the first manifestation of independent tendencies. However, most parents do not understand the psychological characteristics of children during this period, blindly to do with the children, the child must be subdued, the result was counterproductive, children dissatisfied, parents angry. As everyone knows, children’s unconscious resistance is the independent activities in the future, independent thinking, independent judgments, things dare to take responsibility,