人生于世间,由于彼此际遇、阅历、修养、认知水平的不同,面对利害关系时,难免会产生矛盾,在心田生出罅隙。心有怨念,实属常情,我们应如何“报怨”?如何“报怨”?市井江湖流行的是快意恩仇,所谓“有仇报仇,以怨报怨”。但如著名学者茅于轼所言,这在逻辑上是说不通的,就像以错误对待错误,则永远纠缠于错误中,不得宁日。翻开传统文化典籍,儒、道两家为我们“报怨”提供了两种可供借鉴、学习的方法。 Life in the world, due to each other encounters, experience, self-cultivation, different levels of cognition, the face of interest, it will inevitably produce conflicts in the mind to give birth to gaps. The heart of resentment, it is commonplace, how should we “complain”? “How to” complain “? Well-being is a well-known hatred in the marketplace, the so-called ” revenge, complaining “. However, as the well-known scholar Mao Yushi said, this is logically impracticable, just as mistaken treatment of mistakes is always entangled in mistakes, not Ning. Open the traditional culture books, Confucianism, Taoism, two for us, ”complain" provides two ways to learn from.