我母亲家是个大家庭,兄弟姐妹平时各忙各的,但是到了春节必要在外祖父母家团聚。记得小时候,春节里见了面,小辈们除了收压岁钱,还要接受长辈们慈霭目光里的评价,“高了”、“瘦了”、“胖了”。虽然审美眼光各不相同,但是对于女孩子,长辈们的评价大多是“多吃点,太瘦了”。其实我们姐妹几个虽不胖,但也算不上特别纤细瘦弱,不过在老人们看来,女孩子丰润些才更美。正如张爱玲笔下所写的“如果湘粤一带深目削颊的 My mother’s family is a big family, brothers and sisters are usually busy, but in the Spring Festival, it is necessary to reunite with grandparents. I remember when I was young, I met in the Spring Festival. In addition to confining the money, the elders also accepted the evaluation made by the elders in their tender eyes, ”high“, ”thin“, ”fat“. Although the aesthetic eyes vary, but for girls, elders are mostly ”more eat, too thin.“ In fact, although a few of our sisters are not fat, they are not particularly slim and thin, but in the eyes of older people, the girls are more handsome and beautiful. As written by Eileen Chang, ”If the Guangdong and Guangdong area deep cheeks