对人类来说生理的发育总是超前于心理上的成熟。青春期的孩子在性方面的成熟也不例外。他体内的荷尔蒙水平开始急剧变化的时候,他的心理发育程度还远远没有达到能够驾驭这些冲动的水平。而对一个人来说,最大的不适应莫过于对自己的不适应:孩子开始有了力量,但是不知道怎么使用;孩子开始有了自己的想法,但是不知道该想什么;孩子开始有了朦胧的性意识,但是不知道怎么应付…… Physiological development for humans is always ahead of psychological maturity. Adolescent children in sexual maturity is no exception. When his hormonal levels began to change dramatically, his mental development was far from reaching the level at which these impulses were managed. For one person, the biggest malaise is not to adapt to oneself: the child begins to have the strength, but does not know how to use; The child begins to have one’s own idea, but does not know what to think; The child begins to have Obscure sexual awareness, but do not know how to deal with ...