有的孩子当着人面话说得很动听,背后干的却是另一套,这一类问题不一定是由孩子的道德问题所致,而大都是由于家长在教育态度或方法上有不正确的地方。著名心理卫生学家W·H·勃海曾经说过:“健全的人格就是统一的人格。”行为的统一和完整是心理健康与否的重要标志之一。一个心理健康的孩子,他的行为是统一的、完整的。相反,心理不健康的孩子,他的行为是分裂的、矛盾的、相互冲突的。例如,行 Some children speak in front of people with a pleasant voice, but what is behind them is another set of problems that are not necessarily caused by children’s moral problems, but mostly due to parents’ incorrect attitudes or methods in education The place. Well-known psychiatrist WLH Bohai once said: “A healthy personality is a unified personality.” The unification and completeness of behavior is an important indicator of mental health or not. A mentally healthy child, his behavior is uniform and complete. On the contrary, mentally unhealthy children, his behavior is split, contradictory and conflicting. For example, OK