先请看几个典型案例。案例一:有一个叫王鹏的学生,家里三代同堂,其爷爷奶奶有严重的“男尊女卑”思想,母亲在这个家庭中一直不受重视。爷爷奶奶对他非常溺爱,在整个家庭中,只有王鹏的母亲不放纵他,很多时候母亲扮演着“执法者”的角色,王鹏因此恨透了母亲。同时他很清楚母亲在家庭中的地位,所以一直想找一个机会,通过爷爷奶奶向母亲施压,让她从此不敢管教自己。 Please look at a few typical cases. Case 1: There is a student named Wang Peng who lives in a family for three generations. His grandparents have serious thoughts of “male supremacy and inferiority.” His mother has been neglected in this family. Grandparents spoiled him very much. In the whole family, only Wang Peng’s mother did not indulge him. In many cases, her mother played the role of “law enforcer”, and Wang Peng hated her mother. At the same time, he was very clear about the status of the mother in the family, so she always wanted to find an opportunity to put pressure on her mother through her grandparents so that she could not discipline her.