在这个世界上,所有没有分寸、没有尺度的事情,都会做到过犹不及。与朋友相处,同样应当注意分寸,比如你跟一个君子交朋友的时候,什么时候说话,什么时候不说话,自己都要有尺度。孔子说,“言未及之而言谓之躁”(《论语·季氏》)。话还没说到那儿,你就出来发表意见了,这叫毛毛躁躁。这不好。大家有大家的公共话题,一定要到众望所归,大家期待一个话题的时候,你再徐徐道来,这个时候才是合适的。 In this world, all things that are unscientific and unscaled can not be done before. Get along with friends, the same should be paid attention to sense of proportion, such as when you make friends with a gentleman, when to speak, when do not speak, have their own scales. Confucius said, “Anachronistic impatience ” (“The Analects of Confucius.” If you have not said anything yet, you will come out and express your opinion, which is called hairs. This is not good. We have everyone’s public topic, we must look forward to all the people, we look forward to a topic, you then slowly come, this time is appropriate.