莫池是个非常可爱的小男孩,然而由于独特的家庭环境、偏小的年龄和性格内向等原因,从进入幼儿园小班的那天起,他便默无声息、一语不发。不管是我们老师还是班里的小朋友,谁要想让他说出一个字来,那简直是“难于上青天”。 对于这样的小朋友该怎么办呢?是采取“牛不喝水强按角”呢,还是在屡试屡败之后灰心丧气,任其发展?经验告诉我,这两种做法都将给幼儿的心灵蒙上一层阴影,对孩子心理的正常发展产生不良影响。审时度势,我决定用自己的爱心、责任心和耐心深入地了解他、熟悉他,同时也让他一天天地熟悉我、信任我。就这样,通过日渐一日的观察,我逐渐掌握了他这种心理产生的主客观原因和他在家庭中的另一番表现,想尽办法一步步地缩短他和我之间的心理距离。精诚所至,金“口”为开。八个月以后的一天。他终于 Mo Chi is a very cute little boy, but due to the unique family environment, a small age and introverted and other reasons, from the day he entered the kindergarten class, he was silent, without saying anything. Whether it is our teacher or a child in the class, who wants to let him say a word, it is simply “difficult to go sky.” For such a child how to do? Is to take “cattle do not drink strong corner” it, or after repeated failures, discouraged, let its development? Experience tells me that these two practices will give young children’s hearts Cast a shadow, the normal development of children’s psychology have a negative impact. When I judge the situation, I decided to use my love, sense of responsibility and patience to understand him in depth, familiar with him, but also let him familiar with me day by day, trust me. In this way, I gradually mastered the subjective and objective causes of his psychology and his other performances in the family through day by day observation, and tried my best to shorten the psychological distance between him and me step by step. Sincerely, the “mouth” for the open. One day after eight months. He finally