不即不离,亲疏有度 书上常说,恋人必须保持一点距离,这样,才能使魅力永恒。距离产生魅力,距离维持魅力,倒是一个“相对真理”。在领导艺术中也应遵循这一点,特别是与下属相处时,更应记住保持一定的距离。当然若距离太远,“可望而不可及”,让人“敬而远之,望而生畏”,“神圣得不可接近”,似乎也没人买帐。 Do not leave, affinity book often said that lovers must keep a little distance, so that the charm can be eternal. Distance from the charm, distance to maintain the charm, it touches a “relative truth.” In the art of leadership should also follow this, especially when dealing with subordinates, but should also remember to maintain a certain distance. Of course, if the distance is too far, “out of reach”, people “at arm’s length, daunting”, “sacred not accessible”, it seems no one buy it.